Friday, May 11, 2012

The Sandwich (Coming-of-Age Sketch)


It was the summer between my junior and senior years of high school. I had just gotten back from a month long trip in Hawaii. I went to Hawaii as one of the many students involved with the TexasHawaii program. A freshman biology teacher from my high school, named Jeff Schwarz, basically runs the program. For about the past thirty years Mr. Schwarz has led a large group of high school students, gathered from several different public schools spread around the city, on this month long trip which aims to teacher students about the importance of human impact on the environment by immersing them in one of America's most vulnerable ecosystems, the Hawaiian islands.

To say that I was eager to see my friends upon my return home would be an understatement. One of the people who initially reach out to me after getting back was my friend Landon. We had met each other on tennis team during my freshman year of high school. Landon was two years older than me and a sophomore in college at the time. I hadn't seen him since he had up and moved out of state to Montana for college, and I was surprised when I got a text message from him one evening. He invited me to come an apartment downtown near UT's west campus where our mutual friend Matthew, also the same age as Landon, had been living. Excited to reconnect with my old friends, I happily accepted and drove downtown with my girlfriend that night.

We parked the car, walked to the apartment complex, up a spiral staircase and soon found ourselves at the front door. Upon entering, we were greeted by many friendly face, both familiar and foreign. The party was well attended and everyone was doing something. People were dancing in a circle as someone hunched over a Macbook that had seen better days attempted to DJ. Some were sitting around a humongous television screen playing FIFA. Others still were catching up, swapping stories, trying to convince one another which of them, in fact, had had the best freshman year while sipping on sparkling waters-- you know, typical teenager stuff. After a series of warm embraces, Landon caught my attention and motioned for me to follow him and a small group of people into Matthew's room.

I walked in the room and turned my head as I heard the sudden sound of the door locking behind me. As I returned my gaze to the center of the room, I noticed that a group of about seven people had assembled in a circle on Matthew's king-sized bed. In the middle of the bed laid the biggest sandwich I had ever seen. It was about three feet long and intricately designed from the looks of it. Growing up in Austin, I had always been aware of sandwiches in passing, but never had I come in this close contact with one. People were taking turns examining the sandwich, passing it around taking small bites. Eventually someone offered it to me. I was nervous to say the least.

Matthew and Landon quickly read the worried expression on my face and assured me everything would be fine. I thought to myself, “Why not? I'm a fun-loving guy.” And so I went for it. My friends helped me out with my first few bites. After three or four my throat was absolutely on fire! The hot sauce really got to me. I rushed out of the room toward the kitchen and got myself some water. Unfortunately, a college student's apartment isn't exactly the most well-equipped. Warm water from the tap did nothing satiate me. I hurriedly looked in the refrigerator. Barren. I swung open the door of the freezer. The only thing inside was a half-frozen milkshake from Whataburger. Desperate for anything cold, I grabbed it and scarfed it down.

My girlfriend could tell I wasn't feeling my best and suggested that we take our leave. I agreed and we quickly toured the apartment saying rushed goodbyes here and there. As we walked back to the car, I couldn't help but notice that my lips were shaking uncontrollably. I was incredibly anxious. I had bitten off more than I could chew both figuratively and literally. What would people think?

We entered the car, and buckled up. I slowly began to feel more secure as she turned on the car and headed home. Downtown Austin is quite hilly and designed in a grid system. More often than not, you inevitably hit several red lights and have to wait at many an intersection before reaching the highway. Our car was stopped on a steep, downward-sloping hill as we were waiting for a light to turn green. Just as the light changed, so did I. All of the sudden, this overwhelming feeling of fullness washed over me. I remarked to Lauren to that I could feel myself sinking into the seat, overcome by the immense weight of the sandwich. Soon we were on the highway. A sea of crimson tail lights guided us safely home.

Upon arriving at my house, we emerged from the car a pair of detectives. We sleuthed our way to my front porch. Looking through the glass portion of my front door, I noticed my father lying on the couch half asleep. Neither of us felt like waking him, nor did we have a curfew, so we decided to sneak around back and spend the pleasantly cool night sitting on my back porch swing. We held hands, talked, and played music just above a whisper on our iPods for what seemed like forever. It was pure bliss. Eventually we both grew tired and parted ways. I went inside and laid awake for a bit, just thinking. What a great night.

And this was just the first of many nights I spent with sandwiches. Since then, sandwiches have really changed my life. Growing up, I had been told to stay away from sandwiches because they were bad. That night definitely marked a change in me. If sandwiches were wrong, then I didn't want to be right. Sandwiches made me think differently in more way than one. I discovered that it's up to you to make your own decisions. You can't live your life in fear of something without ever experiencing it for yourself. I began to think more critically about things. I started to make my own choices in life. I have had some of the best times of my life hanging out with friends, enjoying a nice sub. Sandwiches have definitely brought me closer to my family as well. A mutual love of sandwiches is something my cousins and I all have in common, and it's honestly served to strengthen many a relationship.

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